1 Feng Shui Reason Why Moving House can be sooooo Challenging
Day #200 of #365 days of Feng Shui
All packing, moving, unpacking and organising aside, there are some deeper reasons why moving house can be so challenging.
‘We out grew our home’
If you work with the theory that your home is a reflection of you and it holds all your patterns, then when you leave your old home to find a new one, you are actually shifting your patterns.
You see, the moment you buy or rent a home, it will be reflecting all yours and your family’s patterns. Relationship patterns, abundance patterns, health patterns, career, study, play, rest, active etc. Positives and negatives.
When you have lived in your home for sometime you become very comfortable with your patterns. You know what to expect in life. Where you put your keys, lay your head at night and how to heat the home the best in winter time. And how to run the bath for your kids so it’s just right, how when it gets windy they don’t like the sound of the gate banging or how your cat let’s you know it wants to come in by climbing the screen door.
But then….just say your family grows or your home just doesn’t feel comfortable anymore…
You feel you are outgrowing your home.
‘It’s gotten to small’
Though consider this…. it’s not your home, it’s you! You are expanding and changing.
It’s time to move, you decide.
Subconsciously you are seeking a space which holds your NEW patterns. The new way you wish to function and live.
A new house for your expanding and evolving soul.
You pack up and move… easy, right?
As it turns out, you have found the most amazing and exciting house. It accommodates every aspect of what you are looking for in a home.
Now, it may take a week, a month or 2, or maybe a little longer… and then…
Everything starts to feel scary and different. Rent, mortgage, a sea change and no good cafes close by… something just isn’t like the old house.
And then you start to miss or crave your old home. The comfort that it brought you and your family.
It’s funny creaks, cosy spaces, coloured crayons marks where your kids did their 1st wall scribble.
Suddenly you have a whole new set of challenges to contend with.
You’ve expanded but you didn’t realise that this beautiful new home, that has everything you could possibly ask for, could be so scary and unsettling.
Dynamics can change in your family. Finances may increase. Your health increases.
And wow, you may actually feel like….
Dare I say it…
that you now have everything you have wished for!
How can it get much better than this?
And right there, is one of your challenges.
Imagine…. if you got everything you wanted…?
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